Couples Solutions. Emotionally Volatile People: “He may be therefore charming then therefore defiant. “Out of the Rough†by Mimi Stuart Live the Life you want Those who swing in one extreme to one other, from being pleasant and charming one minute to being annoyed and defiant the following often lack resilience that is emotional autonomy.… Continue reading Couples Solutions. Emotionally Volatile People: “He may be therefore charming then therefore defiant.